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Boogers and a Mother’s Love

04.25.2016 by Sarah //

Boogers and a Mother's Love

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Holding my breath, I extended my pinky finger, carefully, precisely.  I couldn’t afford to miss.  Doing so would cause pain.  I reached out and my nail sank successfully into pliable goo. I had done it.  I exhaled and breathed in again.  This time holding my breath as I skewered the goo, extracting it.

The precious boy in my arms blinked at me and rubbed his nose before snuggling back into me.

I was captive, my life held mid-sentence, by these moments when he let me rock him to sleep.

But I had boogers on my fingers.

He’d been getting off to sleep so nicely when he whispered into the dark.

“Boogies”

My heart melted and my immune system revolted simultaneously.

Mama kindness won out.

I picked those boogies ever so carefully and stored them on an undisturbed finger until he fell asleep in my snuggles.

This was contentment.

My goo smudged fingers proof that my heart had been blessed with a child to love.

I lay him in bed, crept out, and closed the door on the dark room.

Now In the light, I washed off the thick proof with as much soap and hot water as needed. I was thankful, thankful that I had a precious child whose boogers I was invited to pick.

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“He’s Talking to Me!”

04.23.2016 by Sarah //

Hes Talking to Me

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“He’s talking to me!”

You’d expect the above sentence to be about a child finally opening up.  After all, as foster parents or adoptive parents we often have closed off children.

Nope, not even close.

It was a fight.

Between siblings.

In the backseat.

So why am I thankful? Why the celebration?

Because it was normal, oh so normal!

Finally, some sibling rivalry that was healthy.

They weren’t fighting for resources, my attention, or throwing each other off semi-trucks (Okay, so the last one is exaggerated – but you know they would if they could!).

This was normal, run of the mill, childishly irrational squabbling.

And I was thankful, oh SO THANKFUL for it!

What are you celebrating today?  Share with us in the comments.  Let us celebrate with you!

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Adoption Day

04.21.2016 by Sarah //

Adoption Day photoshop

After yesterday’s very surprising attack of feelings, full of upheaval, catching me very, very, off-guard,

There is peace. There is calm. There is reality.

Today is the day.

Adoption day!

I know today won’t be picture perfect.

We have toddlers.

I know today won’t be smooth.

We have a whole lot of family that all want to hug and hold my very distractible kids.

I know today won’t be idyllic.

Again, we have toddlers.

But it will be good.

Because this is God’s plan. His blessing in our life. The way He’s building this family.

And He is trustworthy.

Today, the truth of the last year will become official.

We will be able to freely love, and give, and correct, and discipline, and guide, and provide for these babies everything we could have if they were born to us.

Today, it will be as if they were born to us.

Today we will be a crazy, imperfect, oft selfish and impatient, but loved-by-our-good-God family.

Happy Adoption Day!

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